ENFJ Crush Tells/Signs

"They pay attention to the person. They listen to what they have to say. They want to be around the person. They may engage in innocent "accidental" touching. They may be less talkative them normal around the person. ENFJs repress their personal feelings and so these are unconscious to them. As such, they often do not consciously know what they like or want. They are pulled by the attraction others have for them."   - ENFJ



"I'm very touchy with people that I like, platonic or romantic wise. Thats how I know that I am becoming close with someone. I also dont mind physical contact, so if I go stiff I always giggle later because I realize how uncomfortable I was with the person said. All that aside, if that person is invading my mind a lot, making me laugh and smile thats pretty significant."   - ENFJ



"I'd blush a lot and be more jittery/anxious I'd imagine."   - ENFJ



"Here are some signs:
-they tend to talk faster 
-they will have a tougher time filling in gaps in the conversation
-sometimes they won't initiate the interaction, get a bit more shy or wait till you approach them
-will want to hang out & will say something like "coffee sometime", but not go through with planning a day/time. More like put that on you do to do so."   - ENFJ

"I'm a little more shy around guys I have a crush on but only at first. Then I usually talk to them more than other people and will sit by them and stuff. I smile a lot and appear smitten. The tell tale sign is being all quiet at first though haha I'm not shy at all but I feel kind of melted on the inside when I'm around someone I have a crush on. Almost like a weakness I don't want to show." - ENFJ

"Interestingly enough: I'm an ENFJ guy...the girl I have a crush on is an ENFJ. She's spectacular and I adore her.

- I blush around her or talking about her with friends.
- I don't know about other ENFJ guys, but I overthink everything before I speak...so it creates quiet pockets of time.
- She sometimes get INFJ (as do I) when we take the Personality Test, and both of us get shy in certain situations.

She complimented me yesterday and the moment she left I was jumping up and down w/ my friend who was there. Lately, I've gotten more comfortable around her. Friday Imma bring canvases, brushes and paints for us to make paintings because last week we spoke about how we like to paint...but since we're in college, she doesn't have her paints and hasn't been able to. So...I bought the stuff to paint with her. So...when I like a girl a lot, I do one other thing:

-Put in a lot of effort; she's that important to me...so...yea...

Those are my crush signs."   - ENFJ

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"That is so cute that the ENFJ guys will blush when they are around a crush. I do the same so it's nice to know I'm not alone."   - INTJ

"Aww.. They do! It is always so hard on me to control the urge of caressing that rosy cheek" - 2nd INTJ